The Pros And Cons Of Having SEX Without Marriage

Any so called "PROS" are completely destroyed and wiped out when we realize that according to God Almighty, people who have sex outside of (without) Biblical marriage cannot get into Heaven. People who do this are considered sinful and wicked by God. This is confirmed throughout the Holy Bible (scriptures shown at bottom of page). And as Jesus has warned: "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" (Mark 8:36 KJV).

The word "fornication" means "voluntary sexual intercourse between two unmarried persons or two persons not married to each other." "fornicari, ‘to commit fornication,’ from which is derived fornicatio, ‘whoredom, fornication.’" The Holy Bible is full of scriptures condemning fornication, and warning of God's wrath against people who are fornicators.

Why would God be so harsh? Why would God condemn people for having sex? Why would God condemn people for wanting to feel good? God Almighty HATES FORNICATION. Let's figure out why...

God created Adam and Eve. The first man and the first woman. These two people joined together as the first husband and wife. The scriptures says that a man shall cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24). God ordained marriage between a man and a woman. He created their physical bodies to perform such, their desires to perform such, their hormones, chemicals and LOVE to join them together in WEDLOCK Holy Matrimony. It's part of his creation process. It's part of his plan. His plan is for the married couple to be joined together for the rest of their lives. Then they start having children. The children grow up having parents. The children have a stability because of this. The children have an understanding that their parents loved each other so much, that they made the decision to marry, to be bound together for the rest of their lives in according to God's plan. This is righteousness in the eyes of God.

God established marriage, and that's why he hates fornication. Fornication defiles his plan. It rejects his plan. It contradicts his plan. It permanently effects fornicators, and the children they have outside of wedlock. FORNICATORS ARE PLAYING GOD, PROCLAIMING THAT THEY WILL MAKE UP THEIR OWN WAYS AND THEIR OWN LAWS APART FROM GOD. Jesus Christ says: "And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works." (Revelation 2:21-23 KJV). 

Ask any Holy Ghost Christian Apostles who have saved their virginity for Holy Matrimony. Ask them what they think about sex without marriage. A man will tell you that the thought of entering into a woman who he is not married to in the eyes of God through Holy Matrimony, or a woman will tell you that allowing a man to enter into her who she is not married to.... They cannot stand the thought of it. It's repugnant. It's disgusting. They hate it. It's defilement of their bodies. It's defilement of someone elses bodies. It's defilement of God's plans... Therefore what are the pros? 

Again Jesus said "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" (Mark 8:36 KJV). What do you gain from having sex with someone you are not married to? Will you gain the whole world? No. What if you COULD gain the whole world, all power and sex and money you could have? What then, when God says your soul is cast into HELL and DAMNATION for all eternity (forever). The spiritual life to come is the real life, the forever life. This life in the flesh on Earth is only a temporary place. A preparation place for people to find God / Jesus and receive Salvation so they can enter into Heaven.

Can someone be free from sexual sin?Can someone become a virgin again, after having had sex?
There is such a thing as sexual cleansing. Being freed of every single sexual sin committed, and therefore becoming a virgin again, in the sense of having been freed from their previous life of sexual sins. "Second virginity" it’s usually called, but it happens only once, when a person gets saved and becomes a Christian, therefore having Jesus Christ take their sins to the cross. They never fornicate again.

We are taught that Fornicators will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."  - 1 Corinthians 6:9-10.

We are taught the will of God about sexuality, fornication:
"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:" - 1 Thessalonians 4:3

We are warned that God has and will destroy fornicators with eternal fire damnation:
"Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire." - Jude 1:7

Jesus Christ warns that He hates fornication, fornicators:
"But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication." - Revelation 2:14

Jesus Christ warns again against fornication:
"Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols." - Revelation 2:20

Jesus Christ indicates that fornicators need to repent, or be severely punished:
"And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works." (Revelation 2:21-23). 

We are taught not to commit fornication:
"Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed, and fell in one day three and twenty thousand." - 1 Corinthians 10:8

We are taught to marry if we want to have sex:
"Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband." - 1 Corinthians 7:2

We are taught not to fornicate:
"But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood." - Acts 15:20

We are taught to abstain from fornication:
"That ye abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well." - Acts 15:29

Evil people are associated with fornication:
"Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers," - Romans 1:29

The early Christians reported perverse fornicators to the elders of the church. They are then commanded to "deliver such an one unto Satan":
"It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife." "...deliver such an one unto Satan..." - 1 Corinthians 5:1&5

Our bodies are not for fornication or sexual impurity:
"Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body." - 1 Corinthians 6:13

Fornication defiles the body:
"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body." - 1 Corinthians 6:18

Fornication is associated with sin:
"Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness," - Galatians 5:19

Fornication and Christian sainthood do not mix:
"But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;" - Ephesians 5:3

We are taught to have discipline, and not take part in fornication:
"Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:" - Colossians 3:5

Fornication is associated with grieving the righteous:
"And lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already, and have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they have committed." - 2 Corinthians 12:21